Just a quick post to say I hope you are having a great day, whether you are single like I am or in a relationship!
I didn’t expect getting too much work done yesterday but since a family occasion got moved to today at the last moment, I found myself suddenly with plenty of time to write. Unfortunately, it also took me some time to settle myself and get writing so I decided to be constructive in my procrastination.
This took the form of working out what exactly I was going to do with a sub-plot line that had taken on a life of its own during the writing. I had introduced the idea of their being an expectation on my FMC to settle down, get married, have and raise children and being a submissive housewife to her husband, now she had finished with her education “nonsense” (her parents words). This had meant to be a means to an end to show the sort of ideology surrounding women on the island I had created for my story. Think of the sort of societal ideas and expectations between 1900 and the 1960’s, particularly in the UK and the US and you have a good idea of what my FMC is trying to fight against.
I just want to quickly state now that I am not saying it is a bad thing to be a home-maker and raise children at home supported by one salary. If a person CHOOSES that path for themselves, excellent. I just don’t agree with the idea that it is a woman’s duty and role in life to do it and she has NO CHOICE in the matter. To housewives and house-husbands of the world, I salute you!
Back to my novel problem, what was meant to be a passing means to an end and has developed into a sub-plot and storyline of its own and I started thinking, ‘well, what could her parents do to MAKE her get married and fall into line?’ They had already failed trying to play matchmaker and get her with a man who is actually gay. (Her parents don’t have gaydar since homosexuality, though not illegal, is highly frowned upon on the island). It took some messing around, Google searches on the web and chatting with my fellow WriMo’s to finally come up with a solution: an arranged marriage with a legally binding contract behind it to make my FMC marry. Thank you to Karina for suggesting it and helping me figure it out. You know who you are and I love you for it. How I am going to implement it, I am unsure yet but it gives me words and possible places to go to help me write and get to 50,000 words.
Figuring that out and getting the idea noted down helped me settle down and after some more chatting with people to help me figure out how to write an argument, I finished at 12:45AM this morning on 15,057 words.
Sunday’s are days when I normally slouch around, don’t do much except surf the web, watch copious amounts of TV including The Big Bang Theory and The Simpsons and since I had the family event today, I have not started writing yet. Yes, I know, I am setting myself up to gain a deficit again after only just managing to clear the last! Even so, I have not stopped thinking about my novel. It was as I was doing my second set of physiotherapy for the day and thinking about how I am at 15k and I haven’t even started the real story yet and thinking about how I need to edit it seriously come December possibly that I realised I could up the stakes on the marriage front and the character’s own determination to remove the expectation on women, to give them a choice in their lives that it occurred to me that her father was a ruling council member of the island on which the story is set! Don’t you just hate it when you get so far and you realise something big about your characters and story?!
So yes, that’s how my NaNoWriMo has evolved in the last 36 to 48 hours.
P.S.: May I also salute and call for people to remember all those who have fallen in wars and conflicts around the world. Today is Remembrance Sunday or Armistice Day. I feel they are the most fitting I can come up with, from the Wilfred Owen poem:
Translation: “It is sweet and right to die for your country.”
- NaNoWriMo Tip #6: Don’t Think Like an Editor (Yet) (mediabistro.com)
- NaNoWriMo: the month-long novelist (telegraph.co.uk)
Yep, another Babylon.
Going behind the scenes of yet another industry, Imogen this time sneaks behind the scenes of Weddings with the help of industry insiders to take a look at a week in the life of a wedding planner. From the high maintenance brides, the celebrities and WAG’s to the class divide marriages, Anonymous sees it all and tells of the planning, the extraordinary costs behind weddings in Britain today and the potential of things to go wrong before and on the day. It’s just yet another week in the hospitality sector…
This book is enjoyable and very readable, reading very similar to earlier books. It is obvious this time that it is written from a male point of view (unlike Air Babylon) and provides some good laughs and some insights into the industry, as well as providing some (slightly) shocking stories. It also does an excellent job of creating a full circle with anonymous waking up from having bedded a bridesmaid at the start and ending on him waking up again from having bedded a bridesmaid.
Unfortunately, this book seems very pedestrian compared to Air and Hotel. The stories are run of the mill, the expected types, no serious shocks (most are expected) and despite being engaging, not as interesting and rather boring. I did enjoy it but I would not read it again and probably could find better and funnier stories online. It also at times reads more as a set of facts and there seems to be a lot of facts and figures quoted. Interesting and perhaps necessary but it does slow the writing and makes it boring. It only got going and became good nearer the end when the bridezilla and mumzilla character types starting coming into play, the father with his new girlfriend, the battle between the mum’s and the bride having second thoughts on her marriage.
The only real shock stories that were unexpected but very funny were the fact that drugs are used at weddings by members of the family and the best man possibly coming out in his speech and admitting he is in love with the groom was excellent and made me really laugh.
This book is good but I don’t believe it is as good as the other books and would not actually recommend this book to the casual reader. Maybe if you are getting married then perhaps but it does have its moments and the wedding at the end is great fun. If this sense of fun and more shocks had been included then it would have been better however this is the sort of book I would not read again unless I really wanted to.
Since this book is the sequel to the last and I have read it, I figured I might as well review this too. Sorry, this is not very long but I did enjoy it more than the other and cannot really find anything wrong with it (at least for now).
After the end of her relationship with James, Sophie is determined to just avoid all relationships until further notice…until she meets Adam. He knows exactly how to get her wound up and take her to her limits but unlike James, he is caring and loving and finds her self falling for him. But this new relationship leaves her with questions. Can she ever have a normal relationship and be a submissive? Can she find her own happily ever after?
I prefer this book over the other and found it easier to read. Maybe it’s because the BDSM scenes are in the context of a loving relationship. I’m not sure. I’m not entirely clear as to why this was easier to read than the other but it is enjoyable, the scenes are as arousing as the last, enjoyable and explores more of the BDSM lifestyle.
If you enjoyed the previous book, then definitely read this. In fact, I think you could read this book without having to read the previous one. Either way, it is a very arousing and satisfying book and the ending just about gives you the feels.